De Lu Lu Thinking & Shit Show Shame (talk)
Nov 19, 2025
Hello Dear One!
Hope everyone is doing good things to and for yourself.
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Including our weekly TALKS ON TUESDAYS.
This week's was one that felt IMPORTANT and SUBSTANTIAL.
We talked about MESSING UP, SHAME, and the going forward SHITTY BEHAVIOR that can easily spring from such things.
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BEING DE LU LU.
What does this actually mean?
De Lu Lu is slang for being DELUSIONAL.
Having a skewed view of what you're doing, inparticular in the realm of weight loss for our purposes here today.
So often when I encounter women who are wishing to lose weight I hear that they, “know what to do, they just need to do it”.
I call bullshit.
For 1 of 2 reasons.
1. “Just doing it.”, isn’t necessarily the easy part.
Sometimes we need MORE in order to, “just do it”.
Plus what’s most important to make something doable is EASE.
If something is hard to implement for ANY # of reasons (no time in day, exhausted already, complicated, restrictive, labor intensive…).
“Just doing it”, can be unrealistic @ best.
2. The Solution STILL doesn’t WORK!
I see this ALL the time! Lovely ladies doubling down on TRYING HARDER, when what they’re efforting to do doesn’t really work.
At least it doesn’t anymore.
So instead of breaking away from what’s known but ineffective, they continue to bail water from a leaky boat.
Wasting tons of TIME, ENERGY, and MONEY only to stay in the same place.
Still feeling exhausted, in pain, HEAVY, uncomfortable in their own bodies, and often a bit depressed.
How FRUSTRATING!!
The thing that I wish for every women over 40 who’s NOT rocking a body that she adores is to become DE LU LU about what you WANT!
Know that the shit you want is POSSIBLE and that it could come to you in a way that feels so much EASIER!
In a way that WORKS for you!
That requires LESS TIME!
With a process that’s EASIER!
That BECOMES EASIER the longer you do it (not harder!)!
That enables you to LITERALLY Have Your Cake and Eat it Too!
Let’s get all kinds of FANTASY FOCUSED about that!
VS kidding ourselves and TRYING HARDER with an outdated approach that’s simply not working.
If you’re a woman over 40 who’s ready to lose 8-15 lbs in a month by going through our MITOCHONDRIAL RECONSTRUCTION that will change your metabolic underpinnings and how your body:
- Looks
- Functions
- Feels
Resulting in:
- less hunger
- No cravings
- More energy
- Slowed aging
- Easier weight loss
- Harder weight gain
- a reality that could be easier and more simple than your wildest expectations
JOIN US!
Become another member of this growing Hot Girl Army who are living their NEW NORMAL LOWS with EASE and JOY! (oh boy!)
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Check out the videos following, and set up a time for a free call to discuss where you are and where you’d like to go.
Would love to help you create unimaginable results in an existence that feels like a dream. (kind of really)
To getting what you want in a way that FEELS EASY!
xo, M
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